The Outgrow of People

There are two things that will force you to outgrow people, career choice and the people you surround yourself with. It’s very important to surround yourself with goal oriented people and people who don’t take everything you do personally because you’re human. You will have days when you don’t have the energy to give, regardless of relation to that person. If people don’t understand your dynamics you will outgrow them.

Life itself is temporary and it’s very intimidating to know that everything is a 50/50 chance. Some people are truly meant to stick around and some people are meant to fall off. When your career is important, people make the mistake of thinking that your dedication to your craft will damage their time w you and they forget about the bond you’ve built with them. You don’t need to constantly reassure someone that you fuck with them, period. If they don’t know it then, they’ll know it after.

Just bc you outgrow someone does not mean you have ill will towards them. It just means they weren’t built like you or for you. Everyone is not meant to be in your life. Know and understand what you have bc outgrowing people isn’t always going to be; “You’re going a different way in life.” Sometimes it’s betrayal and you realize that person doesn’t even hold the same heart, morals or values as you. People will eliminate themselves out of your life.

It’s a sign of growth; wanting what you need instead of just wanting what’s out there or what appears to be great. People will make the assumption that you have no problems bc they’re too consumed in how '“well” life goes for you, but be aware; people are jealous of potential. People will not understand the sacrifices you’ll make to succeed.

Stay focused on what’s important and who you outgrow won’t matter. It’s either; they’re with you or against you.